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		We have all at some point in life had hard lessons to learn and so we 
		can relate to the title of Austin, Texas singer and songwriter Nick 
		Pagliari’s new album Hard Lessons, which was released on July 
		22nd. You have to dig much deeper into a conversation with this amiable 
		musician to discover that some of his greatest influences come from his 
		wife Carmen and the jukebox that was in his parents’ home when he was a 
		young boy.  
		
		Reflecting upon that jukebox he says, “That is where my early influences 
		in music were from in general. I was probably six or seven years old 
		when my father had that jukebox. We would sit in the living room and he 
		would play little 45s on the jukebox and we would dance around and sing 
		those songs. I was really fortunate and it was really, really cool. My 
		brother who is about three years younger than me has that jukebox. I 
		don’t know if it still works, but I would love to hear some of those 
		songs again someday.  
		
		There were all kinds of Motown music and I remember specific artists 
		like The Four Tops, The Beach Boys’ song “Fun, Fun, Fun,” and “Uptown 
		Girl,” by Billy Joel. My mom was a huge fan of Huey Lewis, but that 
		might have been later in her car.  
		
		All that music was an influence on me and it stuck with me as an artist. 
		I think when you are that young, in that stage of your development you 
		are like a sponge. Musically I soaked that stuff up and it stuck with 
		me.” 
		
		Just as he was about to embark on a month-long residency at Geraldine’s 
		in Austin, Nick Pagliari took time to talk with Riveting Riffs Magazine 
		about his album Hard Lessons.  
		
		 
		
		Things like that happen on a whim and I try to capture that when I can. 
		It doesn’t always happen that way. If I am out driving my car and I come 
		up with a nice melody I will try and do a little voice memo, to capture 
		it, so I can come back to it. The songs come in different ways. I have 
		never been able to sit down and say I am going to try and write a song 
		now. I have to have some sort of inspiration that excites me. 
		
		Sometimes I will go for months without writing a song and then I will 
		spend two- or three-months writing songs. It just comes and goes. There 
		are also songs that might take a few months to write and there are 
		others that might take just a few days. It runs the gamut. I have gotten 
		to the point when I try to focus on my lyrics more and I can come back 
		to songs and redraft and rewrite. I really want each lyric to count and 
		each lyric to mean something. I am a real stickler on that and it has 
		really helped me, especially with these last two albums.” 
		
		In listening to “Down in a Rainstorm,” one has to wonder if there was 
		just a little bit of Creedence Clearwater Revival in his parents’ 
		jukebox, because this song is pleasantly reminiscent of their music.  
		
		“This Time will Tell,” possesses languid instrumentals that at times 
		remind one of The Beatles’ “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds,” only instead 
		of a fantasy like, psychedelic lyrics, the imagery is stark, asking 
		poignant questions about the world in which we live. What does the 
		future hold? Are we content to accept things the way they are? Can we 
		trust the images and what is presented as truth?  
		
		Nick Pagliari hints at more Beatles’ influences on the somewhat 
		reflective song, “Sweet Dream.” 
		”Lyrically it is interesting. I came up with the ending part one 
		night, when my kids were really young. I was sitting in bed and rubbing 
		their heads to soothe them until they fell asleep. (He starts to sing) 
		The rest of the song came later. My youngest brother was going through a 
		divorce and so a lot of the lyrics were focused on things I think he was 
		going through. Sometimes I just put myself in the position of someone 
		who is going through something and then those thoughts come out of how I 
		might feel in that situation. The song was my interpretation of what he 
		might have been going through in that particular time.” 
		
		The song is introduced by Jon Estes on piano, who later adds a sense of 
		loneliness and mourning with his cello. Although, the song is about the 
		loss of a relationship, the latter lyrics point to hope for the future 
		and healing, complimented nicely by Jeremy Fetzer’s up-tempo electric 
		guitar.  
		
		Two pivotal songs on the album are the second (“Flame) and fifth tracks, 
		(“Here Comes a Woman”). The latter takes you back to the feel of some of 
		those slower Eagles’ songs of the seventies.  
		
		About “Here Comes a Woman,” he says, “I wanted to give women a pedestal, 
		because I don’t think we do that enough. I think women are so much 
		stronger than men. They are so much more compassionate. When you look at 
		political leaders who are women and the president of New Zealand is a 
		perfect example (Jacinda Ardern) of a woman in a strong political role 
		and doing an exceptional job. I think it is fantastic that there are 
		countries who are willing to lift women up and to put them in a position 
		like that. Other women, little girls and teenagers can sit there and say 
		wow this is who I want to aspire to be like. She is a great role model 
		for me. I think we need more women like that. We need to have more women 
		in powerful roles and we need to continue to grow that. I really like 
		the song “Here Comes a Woman,” and I feel like it turned out to be one 
		of the better ones on the album.” 
		
		Nobody is going to be sitting at concerts while listening to the song 
		“Flame,” this is a two-step song, inviting you to dance to it.  
		
		Is “Flame,” another dance song or is it a portrayal of America? Maybe it 
		is both. This song will resonate with many people. The tempo is quick 
		and keeps it from becoming dark, but the lyrics are powerful. This may 
		be the strongest song on Hard Lessons, because the message is so 
		clear, so powerful and so honest.  
		
		Nick Pagliari says that he feels “Flame,” has a reach that extends 
		beyond the United States, “I feel that it also has a universal appeal, 
		because there is a lot of instability that we are living through right 
		now. There are a lot of changes and a lot of sad stuff.” 
		
		What we as a society have gone through since the year 2020 dawned “has 
		made me a better person, and (taught me) to be more understanding, more 
		empathetic and more of an advocate for people who are suffering in this 
		world. I hope when people hear the song, they feel like we have to make 
		a right turn and get going in a different direction. If we continue down 
		this path, I don’t think it is sustainable. We can’t pass it on to the 
		next generation, because it is a mess,” he says. 
		
		Nick let’s talk about the title track “Hard Lessons,” that opens up this 
		collection of six songs. Who is the woman in the song and what is her 
		story? 
		
		“I think (the song) walks that fine line between being a folky ballad 
		and a Rock song. That song is based on a character who has had all of 
		these events that have unfolded in her life that have not been favorable 
		to her and she has gone through difficult moments. The older she gets 
		and the further along in the story she gets you realize she becomes more 
		guarded. She is less naïve and has more street smarts. She realizes the 
		place is not the perfect place that she thought it was when she was 
		younger. You go through those experiences and they shape you, but you 
		come out on the other end and you learn to mold yourself to take on 
		those types of things. When things happen to you later on, they are not 
		as tragic or as difficult to deal with.  
		
		When I was writing that song, I wanted to take a character and see the 
		transformation in the person as they go through life. The older we get 
		we realize that the world is not as innocent and kind, as we all might 
		have thought at one point. Unfortunately, there are people who learn 
		that at a very young age, even younger than her (the person in the 
		song). That to me is the gist of it.  
		
		The reason I called the record Hard Lessons is all these songs 
		that I wrote were during the pandemic and it was a time that was very 
		difficult for most people in the world. Things were uncertain and there 
		was a lot of fear. There was a lot of negativity and darkness in most 
		people’s heads, but maybe it is time for people to learn from it and 
		move forward in some way.  
		
		Nick Pagliari is years removed from being that fifteen-year-old crooner 
		in his first band formed with a couple of high school friends. One might 
		say he was conscripted, because the other two bandmates could not sing, 
		but played guitar and Pagliari did not play at that point in his life. 
		They would rent a four tracks music recorder from the local music store 
		and turn his parents’ basement or his friends’ homes into a studio.  
		
		He says, “The first song I wrote was about a girl I was crazy head over 
		heels with and she wanted to have nothing to do with me (he chuckles). 
		It was a story of heartbreak. I don’t think I wrote the music. I think 
		it was one of my two buddies and I just wrote the lyrics. I don’t 
		remember what we called it, but as horrendous as it would be, I can 
		still probably remember a few of the words. I don’t know if I ever 
		played that song for that girl, but there were more songs that came 
		after that, she certainly heard. We would record all of our songs and 
		give these mixed tapes to our friends.”  
		
		Well, that teenage girl may not have paid attention to him, but another 
		lady did fall in love with him, later on, his wife Carmen, whom he 
		describes as being his rock.  
		
		“I grew up in a middle to upper class family and I went to private 
		schools. There wasn’t a whole lot of diversity that I was exposed to as 
		a kid growing up and it put me in a bubble. I wasn’t really aware of how 
		other people live in this world and how other people struggle or how 
		other people deal with everything. I met my wife and I love her dearly. 
		She really started to open up my eyes to a lot of those things. That was 
		very transformative for me as a songwriter and a lot of that stuff has 
		started to come out. I started to be aware of it and make observations. 
		That is what we do as songwriters. I used to always have a little book 
		with me, but now I have my phone with me and I can put whatever kind of 
		lyrical idea I have into my phone. I can sit down with it when I am 
		ready to write and go from there. I never knew what unconditional love 
		was until I had kids. That expanded my palette when it came to writing,” 
		says Nick Pagliari.   
		
		If you want to listen to some music that you can sink your teeth into, 
		visit your favorite online music store or visit Nick Pagliari’s 
		
		website 
		and purchase a copy of Hard Lessons.  
		
		The album was engineered, mixed and co-produced by Jon Estes (Nick 
		Pagliari was the other co-producer) and mastered by John McLaggen. In 
		addition to the other people we have already mentioned, Jamie Dick is 
		the drummer / percussionist, Steve Pardo (horns), Sadler Vaden plays 
		guitar, as does Nick Pagliari (acoustic) / keys / percussion and Alexis 
		Saski contributes background vocals.  
		
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